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My wife and I have been living apart since we got married’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My wife and I have been living apart since we got married’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Young African couple in romantic embrace in a field. Young lovers in a field with flowers. A listener shares that since he and his wife married three years ago they never consistently lived together. This was due to the fact that they worked in different provinces. Now that he got a better paying job, his wife wants to quit her job and relocate to love with him permanently. […]

today07/04/2025

‘My boyfriend expects me to support his kids financially - The Blind Spot

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‘My boyfriend expects me to support his kids financially’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Diva Plavalaguna: https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-and-woman-having-an-arguement-5711598/ A listener shares that she’s been with her boyfriend for about two years, and like any relationship, they’ve had their ups and downs.  She has two sons from a previous relationship, while he has a daughter from his own previous relationship. Neither of their children live with them. As a single mother, she has made it her life’s mission to provide for her […]

today04/04/2025

‘My boyfriend of three years has never once bought me a gift’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My boyfriend of three years has never once bought me a gift’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by freepik A listener shares that in over three years of dating her current boyfriend, he has never bought her a gift. She loves gifts, and birthdays are especially important to her. Recently, her ex—who understood her love language—reached out, hoping to rekindle their relationship. Now, she feels torn between staying with someone who doesn’t speak her love language and giving her ex another chance. “I’ve been […]

today01/04/2025

‘My boyfriend wants to marry me, but he still lives at home’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My boyfriend wants to marry me, but he still lives at home’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by freepik A listener shared that her relationship started off well, but her boyfriend’s reluctance to move out of his mother’s backroom has become a setback. Although he has promised to pay lobola, she questions how he will support a family while still living at home. Now, she’s considering leaving the relationship but fears her decision might backfire. “I've been dating this guy since 2021. In the […]

today28/03/2025

‘I feel out of place as the only one among my friends without kids’ - The Blind Spot

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‘I feel out of place as the only one among my friends without kids’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by freepik A 35-year-old listener shares that she is the only one in her friend group without children. As they’ve grown older, she feels judged and out of place during outings, as conversations revolve around babies and motherhood. She wonders whether this is a sign to step away from the friendship or if there are any blind spots she might be overlooking. “I am a 35-year-old woman; […]

today26/03/2025

‘I feel uncomfortable with my friend as my wife’s gynaecologist’ - The Blind Spot

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‘I feel uncomfortable with my friend as my wife’s gynaecologist’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by DC Studio on Freepik A listener shares that he and his wife are expecting their first child together. His wife wants their gynaecologist to be a close friend of theirs—specifically, a male friend in their social circle. While he understands his wife’s desire for someone familiar and trustworthy during her first pregnancy, he admits feeling uneasy about another man, especially one they know personally. He’d prefer […]

today25/03/2025

‘My new boyfriend has an issue with me being a tomboy’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My new boyfriend has an issue with me being a tomboy’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by freepik A listener shared that she has been a tomboy her whole life, and when her current boyfriend was courting her, he seemingly had no issue with it. Now, a year and a half into their relationship, her boyfriend has started complaining about her appearance and wants her to embrace a more feminine style. This has never been her vibe. Reaching out to The Best T […]

today24/03/2025

‘My boyfriend wants me to change because he’s now a pastor’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My boyfriend wants me to change because he’s now a pastor’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Image by freepik A listener shared that her boyfriend recently answered his calling to become a pastor. While her partner has always been a churchgoer, he is now more serious about his faith than ever before. However, with this new role, he has asked her to change her lifestyle to align with the expectations of the church. As all eyes will now be on him, he feels it’s […]

today18/03/2025

‘My 10-year-old daughter wants to move out’ - The Blind Spot

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‘My 10-year-old daughter wants to move out’ – The Blind Spot

Katlego Sekhu Photo by Gustavo Fring: https://www.pexels.com/photo/photograph-of-a-child-covering-her-ears-while-sitting-on-a-sofa-7447257/ A listener shared that after his wife passed away, he was left to raise their two children alone. Recently, his 10-year-old daughter expressed a desire to move out and live with her aunt. However, he is hesitant about this arrangement, as he doesn’t believe the aunt is a suitable role model due to her party-centric lifestyle. He reached out to The Best T […]

today17/03/2025

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THIS PRIVACY STATEMENT FORMS PART OF KAYA 959’S TERMS OF USE POLICY. IF YOU DO NOT AGREE WITH ANY TERM OF THIS PRIVACY STATEMENT, YOU MUST CEASE YOUR ACCESS OF THIS WEBSITE IMMEDIATELY. 

POPIA ActTo promote the protection of personal information processed by public and private bodies; to introduce certain conditions so as to establish minimum requirements for the processing of personal information; to provide for the establishment of an Information Regulator to exercise certain powers and to perform certain duties and functions in terms of this Act and the Promotion of Access to Information Act, 2000; to provide for the issuing of codes of conduct; to provide for the rights of persons regarding unsolicited electronic communications and automated decision making; to regulate the flow of personal information across the borders of the Republic; and to provide for matters connected therewith.

RECOGNISING THAT—

  • section 14 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996, provides that everyone has the right to privacy;
  • the right to privacy includes a right to protection against the unlawful collection, retention, dissemination and use of personal information;
  • the State must respect, protect, promote and fulfil the rights in the Bill of Rights;

AND BEARING IN MIND THAT—

  • consonant with the constitutional values of democracy and openness, the need for economic and social progress, within the framework of the information society, requires the removal of unnecessary impediments to the free flow of information, including personal information;

AND IN ORDER TO—

  • regulate, in harmony with international standards, the processing of personal information by public and private bodies in a manner that gives effect to the right to privacy subject to justifiable limitations that are aimed at protecting other rights and important interests,
  1. Definitions and Interpretation

1.1.“Personal Information” means information relating to an identifiable, living, natural person and where it is applicable, identifiable, existing juristic person, including all information as defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013. 

1.2  Parliament assented to POPIA on 19 November 2013. The commencement date of section 1Part A of Chapter 5section 112 and section 113 was 11 April 2014. The commencement date of the other sections was 1 July 2020 (with the exception of section 110 and 114(4). The President of South Africa has proclaimed the POPI commencement date to be 1 July 2020.

 
1.3. “Processing” means the creation, generation, communication, storage, destruction of personal information as more fully defined in the Protection of Personal Information Act 4 of 2013.  

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1.4. “Website” means the website of the KAYA 959 at URL www.kaya959.co.za or such other URL as KAYA 959 may choose from time to time.   

  1. Status and Amendments

2.1. KAYA 959 respects your privacy. This privacy policy statement sets out KAYA 959’s information gathering and dissemination practices in respect of the Website. 

2.2. This Privacy Policy governs the processing of personal information provided to KAYA 959 through your use of the Website. 

2.3. Please note that, due to legal and other developments, KAYA 959 may amend these terms and conditions from time to time.  

  1. Processing of Personal Information

3.1. By providing your personal information to KAYA 959 you acknowledge that it has been collected directly from you and consent to its processing by KAYA 959. 

3.2. Where you submit Personal Information (such as name, address, telephone number and email address) via the website (e.g. through completing any online form) the following principles are observed in the processing of that information: 

3.2.1. KAYA 959 will only collect personal information for a purpose consistent with the purpose for which it is required. The specific purpose for which information is 
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3.2.2. KAYA 959 will only process personal information in a manner that is adequate, relevant and not excessive in the context of the purpose for which it is processed. 

3.2.3. Personal information will only be processed for a purpose compatible with that for which it was collected, unless you have agreed to an alternative purpose in writing or KAYA 959 is permitted in terms of national legislation of general application dealing primarily with the protection of personal information. 

3.2.4. KAYA 959 will keep records of all personal Information collected and the specific purpose for which it was collected for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.5. KAYA 959 will not disclose any personal information relating to you to any third party unless your prior written agreement is obtained or KAYA 959 is required to do so by law. 

3.2.6. If personal information is released with your consent KAYA 959 will retain a record of the information released, the third party to which it was released, the reason for the release and the date of release, for a period of 1 (one) year from the date on which it was last used. 

3.2.7. KAYA 959 will destroy or delete any personal information that is no longer needed by KAYA 959 for the purpose it was initially collected, or subsequently processed. 

3.3. Note that, as permitted by the Electronic Communications and Transactions Act 25 of 2002, KAYA 959 may use personal information collected to compile profiles for statistical purposes. No information contained in the profiles or statistics will be able to be linked to any specific user.    

  1. Collection of anonymous data

4.1. KAYA 959 may use standard technology to collect information about the use of this website. This technology is not able to identify individual users but simply allows KAYA 959 to collect statistics. 

4.2. KAYA 959 may utilise temporary or session cookies to keep track of users’ browsing habits. A cookie is a small file that is placed on your hard drive in order to keep a record of your interaction with this website and facilitate user convenience. 

4.2.1. Cookies by themselves will not be used to identify users personally but may be used to compile identified statistics relating to use of services offered or to provide KAYA 959 with feedback on the performance of this website. 

4.2.2. The following classes of information may be collected in respect of users who have enabled cookies: 

4.2.2.1. The browser software used; 

4.2.2.2. IP address; 

4.2.2.3. Date and time of activities while visiting the website; 

4.2.2.4. URLs of internal pages visited; and 

4.2.2.5. referrers. 

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5.1. KAYA 959 takes reasonable measures to ensure the security and integrity of information submitted to or collected by this website, but cannot under any circumstances be held liable for any loss or other damage sustained by you as a result of unlawful access to or dissemination of any personal information by a third party. 

  1. Links to other websites

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  1. Queries

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